I pray you’re all well and in good spirits.

Bundles of Luv often time we close doors carelessly and arrogantly. What I mean by this is often times we close door without much thought process. We act as if can always reopen a door we’ve closed. It’s true some doors can be reopened but it depends on how the door was closed. Was it slammed, was it closed quietly, was the door closed and locked and the key tossed, and so on. Sometimes doors no matter how they were closed once closed they can’t be reopened.

Bundles of Luv some doors you need to close and some doors you need to keep open. Some doors we close out of anger, fear or pressure usually these are the doors that we should be trying to keep open. Often the doors we need to keep open we close and vice versa the doors we need to close we keep open. There should always be a thought process that go into deciding if a door is a door you need to keep open or a door you need to close.  Reason being is because some doors can’t be reopened and closing one  door can also close other doors.

Bundles of love be mindful of your doors don’t make speedy decisions when deciding to close a door. Think about what’s on the other side of the door and also make sure there’s not a suction effect. Have you ever noticed when you close a door and another door close as well that’s the suction effect. If you’re uncertain if a door needs to be closed or kept open put a door stopper in the door so you don’t close it completely. When you take time to think things through you will know you’ve made the right decision and want have to worry and wonder about it later.

Bundles of Luv closing doors aren’t easy even it is a door that needs to be closed just be thoughtful in you door closing process and you will be alright. Bundles of Luv always remember most of the time closed doors can’t be reopened but also that some doors have to close for others to open.

I love you all and until next time.

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love!!!!!!!!!

I hope you all are well!!!  Yes I know it has been quite some time since my last post but you know how life is when it shows up.

Bundles of Luv we spend a lot of our time trying to be part of the in crowd better know as the popular crowd. This is more so true when we are in our teen years in high school or college.  There is always the group that is labeled the popular crew. They walk around like the world spins at their command and as if God run his plans by them before he put them into action. Now we also know that the ones the popular group always pick on and they labeled the unpopular in other words the geeks and the weirdos.

Bundles of Luv lets look at this deeper. The popular group spends more of their time picking on and bring the attention to the so-called unpopular groups like the geeks and weirdos think about this. The popular group consume their time coming up with insults and plans to try to embarrass the unpopular. The so-called unpopular just minding their business when here come the so-called popular with the crap.

Bundles of Luv bottom line is the so-called unpopular are the ones that are really popular and the so-called popular are the weirdos. Popular people are usually a group of people who are afraid to be themselves and always need validation from someone else they are just a bunch of followers. I call them carbon copies I mention carbon copies in earlier post. Carbon copies are people who always have to be doing what everyone else is doing they have no individuality. They are followers and people pleaser.

Bundles of Luv popularity is not what you think it is and be proud not to be part of the in crowd because deep down the in crowd is just a bunch of unhappy  followers that need others to validate them. Be happy to be an individual. Having you own mind and being outside the so call norm is a good thing and know when you are your own individual you are truly the popular one.

I Love Each And Every One Of You!!!!!!

Until Next Time…….

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love!!!

I hope you’re all blessed and well!

Bundles of Luv forgiveness is a big key to freedom in our lives. Many of us are walking around daily angry, bidder, and full of hate. We’re holding on to hurt and pain that someone caused us some recent but most from years ago. Bundles of Luv when we don forgive it keeps us bound it disconnect us from many things but most of all it keep us disconnected from God or our higher power. It clearly states if we expect to be forgiven for our daily short comings we must forgive with a humble heart we expect to be forgiven by God and others but yet we can’t forgive.

Bundles of love forgiveness is not only a direct connect to our own gift of being forgiven but its also good for our health and well-being walking around constantly angry and mad at the world takes a heavy toll on our bodies physically and mentally. That person that hurt or caused you pain walks around happy and sleeps great at night while you’re lugging around these heavy loads.

Forgiveness is not for the person that wronged us most of us fail to realize its for us it set us free from bondage along with many other things. We think by not forgiving we are hurt the person or keeping them down we think we’re punishing them in some way. If we paused and took a good look at the situation we will learn its only affecting us ourselves.

Now let’s touch on how we know we’ve forgiving someone. When you see that person or those persons that have wronged you and you can honesty smile, hug, and be around them without any animosity you have truly forgiven.

Bundles of Luv the most important thing to remember is that forgiveness is for you. Forgiving helps you sleep at night because anger just stresses you and you body. Also know God want accept your plea for forgiveness if you don’t forgive others. So set yourselves free be forgiving and forgiven.

I love each and everyone of you!!!!

Until next time

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love

I hope all of you are all blessed and well!!!!!

Bundles of Luv  we all say things and to us it doesn’t mean much we just say them to get our points across. For instance my head is killing me or I’m bored to death and so on. What we fail to realize is that words are powerful very powerful when you speak things you speak them into existence. Then we wonder why we are going through so much and things don’t seem to be getting better. Bundles of Luv if  we want things to get better we have to speak better things into our lives.  I know it’s hard sometimes to get out of the habit of saying the things we are used to saying. I have practiced this for a while and at first it was a task monitoring what I was always saying but it’s easy now.

There are ways to express feelings without speaking bad into your life so next time you have a headache bundles of love instead of saying my head is killing me pause and say my head is aching or if you just want to put emphasis on it just shake your head or  try not saying anything just take something and say this headache has to go. Another thing stop claiming negativity into your lives as well. We are so quick to hear things other people talk about symptoms others describe and we for some reason love to diagnose ourselves with the same thing oh I got that too. What is that about. We have to stop being so quick to do this.

Bundles of Luv stop speaking bad into your lives stop using phrases like this is killing me or I’m so sick, I’m bored to death. Speak positive things into your life lets start a new trend. When you speak positive you will feel positive, see positive things happen.

I Love each and one of you and until next time…..

Let Love Live Love, Be Love

Hope you all or blessed and without stress.

Bundles of Luv it’s time for some truth about a serious issue. Yesterday was National Black Hiv/Aids Awareness Day. I went to a few presentations discussing the matter but one just irked my nerves because there was this Lady from the New York Health Department and she was Caucasian. At first a friend and I was getting a tickle out of how every time she said black people it seemed like the emphasis on the black was a bit much.  Yeah we were being childish a little but the info she was giving is nothing to be childish about. I was sitting there listening to her speak and it’s seems as if it’s made out that most of the cases of Hiv and Aids are people of color black people because basically we’re black.  Me being who I am went deep into the issue and my head. Yeah the issue may be look at on an ignorant level or spoken to us trying to yet keep us as a people down  but I looked at it as this.

Now Bundles of love of color don’t hate me but the reason for black men and women having higher numbers of Hiv and Aids cases  is because we sometimes are so stupid and ignorant that we believe oh I can’t have Hiv or Aids we act like shit can’t happen to us we don’t get tested and we have unprotected sex we live life sometimes  at very high risk and feel like we’re immune to a lot of shit not just Hiv or Aids but black men and women don’t got to the doctors and get check up until it’s obvious something is wrong and sometimes even then we still don’t go.  Now get this  when something very bad happens we’re rolling on the floor asking God why us. Giving an Oscar nominee performance.

Also there is that really ignorant line people say that’s a GAY disease really those exists. Yall better stop being dumb as hell and get you some education.  No disease is for a certain group of people diseases are not prejudice the have no respect a person.  Hiv /Aids is reality to us all not matter black, white, spanish, asian  and ect…… It’s time to get off the stupid train and get some knowledge and wisdom about all this reality all around you.

Bundles of Luv don’t sit around and wait to the last-minute stop thinking you’re so high and might you are immune to everything go out get tested, use protection educate your kids, family, community.  Stop giving others an excuse to try to put us as a lesser people. Others stop the crap tell the truth the whole truth and nothing but the truth we are a strong people; that bull don’t work anymore you can’t bring us down look at what we went through and we are here doing our thang. You know the reason many cases in the black people are not because we’re black it’s because we don’t get tested and talk about things because we think we’re the super being. Black men and women It’s not who we are that makes us a higher risk it’s what we’re not doing. Yes we are a strong, beautiful, significant (as a great preacher preached) people but we are human as well so anything that affect others affects us too.  Get info about Hiv/Aids at your local health department even online stop the ignorance.

I love each and every one of you

Until next time  Let Love,  Live Love,  Be Love

Happy New Year. I hope you all are having a safe and blessed New Year.

Consequences comes with every decision we make there are good consequences there are bad consequences. We all have choices in the decisions we make good or bad and consequences are the dues for those decisions.  Many of us are out making the wrong decisions and  when time come to pay the dues we wanna cry, hang our head in shame, confess how sorry we are, and want pity when we should have been doing all that  while we were out doing what we were doing.  If we took the time to really think about the bad choices we were thinking of making we wouldn’t make them.  People often say I thought about it before or while I was doing what I was doing but I say you didn’t think hard enough because when you truly think things out thinking about the consequences you wouldn’t do them because you will realize you’re gonna get caught.  No deed go unpunished the dark always come to the light you want get away. Your dues will be paid.

Bundles of Luv stop using the word mistake to make your bad choice look better. A mistake is something like  grabbing the wrong spice while cooking, putting a shirt on inside out or backwards, leaving the kids at the grocery store lol just kidding but you get my point. Cheating or stealing is not a mistake it’s a decision.  Let me elaborate cheating how do you mistakenly cheat it’s just too much of a process to be a mistake oh I get it you thought the person you were with was your spouse of partner that’s how it’s a mistake right. Catch my drift.

Bundles of Luv before you make choices or decisions take time to think it out think about the consequences the dues. Think is it worth it because lets face it you will get caught and you will have to pay the dues. Life is bad enough sometimes don’t add to it. The only way to make life easier is to do the right thing don’t make any decisions for which you wouldn’t want the consequences. Bundles of Luv be good to others most of all be good to yourselves be good to life and life will be good to you. Much love and Good Consequences to you all.

Until next time!!!!

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love

Yes it has been a long time. I hope you all have been doing great enjoying the holiday being safe and preparing for a New Year.

Bundles of Luv we celebrate Birthdays year after year.  Some of us complain I don’t want to get old now there’s a couple things about that saying I have to comment on. The most important is be careful and mindful of the words you speak words have strong powers and they aren’t always  as you meant  yes you probably meant I wanna stay looking young and being young but they can come into existence as dying will keep you from getting old. Remember the saying be careful what you wish for.

Another thing is a lot of us aren’t getting older what I mean is some of us are getting older physically but mentally some of us are still kids, teenagers, little boys and girls some even big babies though we’re in our 20′s, 30′s, 40′s, 50′s and sadly it keeps going. With each birthday you’re suppose to change a little at a time get wiser realize that with each birthday party comes a little more responsibility. Some of us need that friend or love one at the birthday celebration to slap some sense into us and tell us to grow the —- well I want got there though I want too to express the sincerity of the problem.   This is the reason for a lot of the craziness in this world.  There are the childish adults bringing kids in this world when mentally they’re just kids themselves and instead of raising them, teaching them the ways of life they’re out partying and being irresponsible  and when the kids turn out to be little assholes they’re wondering why. Elderly adults just out and about just being childishly inappropriate.

Everything is age appropriate and when it isn’t it’s not cute it’s sad, embarrassing, and just sick. Yeah there are times when the kid come out of all of us and that’s kewl in certain situations but when it’s all day everyday maybe you need to take a look in the mirror or need a slap to bring you back to reality.

Bundles of Luv growing older is a blessing a blessing many don’t get to experience. Growing older is gaining wisdom, experiences, and life lessons and passing them on to the youth thus preparing them for a better future. Aging can be very beautiful when the physical and mental is in sync.  Bundles of Luv aging doesn’t mean life can’t still be fun and exciting but it does need to be age appropriate. Young Bundles of Luv respect the elderly( the older)  Older Bundles of Luv teach, guide, raise, and spread your wisdom onto the youth(the younger).  Next time you’re hearing Happy Birthday make it truly a Happy Birthday stay in Sync.

Grow Older  inside and outside Age in sync.

Much Luv to you all and until next time!!!!!!

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love

Hope you all are well!

Bundles of luv I have seen lots of kids lately yelling, cursing, hitting and telling the parents what the are and aren’t gonna do. Most of the times its kids and their mother sometimes it’s both parents. Now I’m a southern boi I will never talk to my mom of dad they way these kid do. Most of you know what would happened if I had tried or ever do. I saw this kid cursing and disrespecting his mom. It was bad. It brought tears to my eyes that a child could say things and treat his mom like he was. I see it more and more each day kids hitting their parents cursing them because they can’t have their way. I saw a little girl slap her dad in the face and he didn’t do a thing. Pause because I did I blacked out for a moment and almost got up and gave her a spanking but I came back to sense and remembered she wasn’t my child. Just the other day this little boy was just stomping and kicking his mom because she wouldn’t allow him to do something and she just started counting and I’m saying to myself really; he look like hew was saying to himself wow she really think that scares me I already know she’s not gonna do anything. Parents stop it cut it the fuck out letting kids run you instead of you run them it’s not cute it’s pathetic. All you doing is raising little assholes and they are headed to a future either ending up in jail or worst in the morgue cold with a tag on their big toe. Parents when you don’t discipline your kids those kids are gonna grow up with no love or respect for you or anyone else. When your kids grow older and start taking money out of your purse or smacking you around because you want give them what they want are you gonna start to count then or tell them they’re in time out what does you’re in time out even mean anyway. I’ll tell you nothing.

Parents stop letting you kids run over you before it’s too late. Stop raising little assholes and start raising manner able and respectable Bundles of Luv. Kids stop trying to control your parents. Stop hitting, yelling, and cursing your parents. You’re the child meaning you’re not in control. Respect and honor you parents, yourself and others. Bundles of Luv discipline never killed anyone I’m not saying you have to abuse your kids but you should discipline them properly before they begin to abuse you.

I hope you are all being blessed and not stressed.

I am who I am because I am who I am; I am me. Bundles of Luv I know you have all had people who have tried to convince you; you shouldn’t be who you are, the way you are. It’s part of life you have individuals that are being who they are and how they wanna be but telling you not to do the same. The sad thing is that some succeed. If you have read my previous post you will have read the one about carbon copies. So many of us are carbon copies and it’s sad. We are called individuals for a reason. We are not supposed to be just like anyone else if that was the case we would all think, act, and look-alike. How scary would that be. What a boring, irritating place this world would be. I love being me and we should all love being just who we are.

Bundles of Luv don’t let anyone change who you are because when you change who you are to be someone else you kill you and like I always say killing is a crime and you should be locked away. It’s easy to get caught up on admiring, liking, and thinking someone is really cool and wanna be like them. The truth is someone thinks that way about you and you should also think that way about you. It’s kewl to like and admire someone and Don’t get me wrong there are gonna be people you meet that have some of the same likes and dislikes as you and that’s kewl but leave it at that. Stay you when someone bring out the carbon paper you demand them to put it away. Be truly you and everyday when you wake up you say to yourself I am who I am because I am who I am me and I love me the way I am.

I love each and every one of you and hope you do the same

Until next time!!!!!!!

Let Love, Live Love, Be Love

Hope you are all well and blessed.

Bundles of Luv Money is truly the root of all evil. What is it about this green substance that drive people haywire. Money will show people up and it will separate friends, family, and lovers if you’re not true and grounded. It is told to never get into money business with family and friends. I say don’t get into grimy family and friends. If you’re true and grounded and have family and friends that are too you will be just fine. Money just get to some people thought they get greedy and selfish and that’s were the problems start they will trample over anyone in their way to obtain it and enough is never enough. Money situations take lives and ruin lives. They ruin friendships and relationships. Money Greed has this world so fucked up and have a lot of people fucked up. There are people that are well they have more than enough of it but still hungry for more. I want lie money is good it can have you very comfortable and worry free but it can also have you uncomfortable and stressed out of you mind.

Bundles of Luv money is good but its also bad when misvalued. Live on the money not for it. That green paper substance isn’t worth all the craziness it causes. If you ain’t careful it can go to your head very quickly and as quickly as it come it goes. You have those out here all about quick money doing all sorts of things to get it. Bundles of love quick easy money is never easy it always end you at a dark long hard road. God don’t like ugly and it’s a lot of it going on over money and like always in the end money wins. Spend it but don’t let it spend you, control it don’t let it control you, and work for it don’t let it work you. Family, Friends, lives are all more valuable.

I love each and everyone of you and wish you great prosperity!!!!!!!

Until Next Time……..
Let Love, Live Love, Be Love